We
modern Amerikkans certainly are lucky, amirite?
We have every convenience that science (if you
believe in that stuff) can offer. Spacephones that provide all the
information we could ever want right there in our hands
unless we drop the damned thing and the touch-screen goes CRUNCH. We have cars that are also Wi-Fi hot spots and mobile entertainment pods, with ass-vibrators to warn us about other
cars or slow-moving skin bags because we’re too busy looking at the spacephone
while we’re backing up. We have mega-screen
plasma HD 3D teevees that will stream digital movies, browse the web, order a crappy pizza
and display multiple basketball games so you don’t miss a single point
or foul or cheerleader up-skirt.
Yep,
we sure are lucky. Unless, of course, you are a woman who decides she doesn’t
want to be pregnant.
Here
we are, in the second decade of the 21st century, living in arguably
the wealthiest and most liberated nation on the planet, yet still having a terribly dividing discourse
on whether or not women have the right to decide for themselves if they wish to
have children or not. It’s a real-world issue that is muddied-up by sanctimonious morons who champion their
Bronze Age religious dogma as justification for making sure their
personal beliefs are codified into laws for everyone else. First Amendment? What First Amendment?
But
that’s not primarily what this essay is all about, nope nope nope.
This
essay is about big stiff dicks… raging hard-ons… massive cocks… turgid penises…
throbbing dongs. You know, that which is
held most exalted in the male performance-dominated psyche, fixated on what all men are supposed to be truly concerned
about: getting a great big dick whenever
it suits him. And we have the technology to make sure that
happens, thanks to modern medicine.
Are
we a nation filled with men who are obsessed with having huge, stiff boners
that will stay hard as a Louisville Slugger for hours at a time? This
is a serious question, and I think the answer is “Yes”.
Consider
the amount of advertising dollars being spent to
market the promise of a raging hard-on for any man who wants one, who needs
one, who simply is not a real man unless he has one. It’s becoming almost comical, this intense
focus on the erect male member. We dare
not refer directly to the throbbing boner, nor can we EVER actually show
one (unless PORN), but obsessed with the throbbing boner we are, and it is big
bidness, baby.
I
never watch traditional stick-and-ball sports on teevee because they bore me to
death. However, I watch a lot of network news and NASCAR racing and OMIGOSH it
seems like every commercial break is peppered with ads for Viagra and Levitra and Cialis (what's up with the damned bathtubs?!?) and Androgel 1.62 and all the other modern meds that work wonders on
flaccid dicks, making them ramrod-straight and potent. The ads are filled with are not-so-subtle phallic imagery, from sailboat masts to redwood trees,
from Doric columns to muscle cars, from surfboards to large rock
formations… anything that issues the subliminal message that you too can be
‘ready’ at a moment’s notice to have sexual relations with your significant
other, your medically-induced boner leading the way.
And the people in the ads who are ready to bang away, they all have the same insipid grin on their faces, hee hee hee, because he’s gonna have a BIG DICK in about 5 minutes and she is just so happy about it. I wonder… is she using birth control, or is she too old to get preggers? Think he’ll use a condom? And the men in the commercials, so handsome and craggily virile, all hetero male and no guessing. Sure, they might look slightly middle-aged, but they are in CONTROL of their lives… er, that is, they can control their hand that pops a pill in their mouth so that in a few minutes they can wave their fresh boner around and stick that thing right where they want to. He knows how to MAKE THINGS HAPPEN.
Now, don't get me wrong... I totally understand that our sexuality is a very complicated point of reference, whether male or female. We all want to remain vital sexual beings as long as possible, so it's no surprise that some women turn to hormone-replacement therapy to stay sexually active and satisfied as their baby-making years wind down. For men, getting older also means lower testosterone levels and the resultant impact on popping a successful boner. The problem with the male plumbing is that the big dick (or lack thereof) is a clear visual indicator of liftoff or crash-n-burn, and it can be devastating to the terribly fragile male ego when things go awry.
There’s a reason why male and female hormone levels drop as we age. It’s called GETTING OLD, and it was something that adults just dealt with until boner pills and HRT became readily available. Yes, I know all about modern medicine, why we should take advantage of it to make our lives better yadda yadda yadda, but this medical dick-stiffener thing has me wondering why it’s become so pervasive, so important. It makes perfect sense to me that as we age, our body’s natural chemical cocktail would begin to curtail hormone production because no more babies, but I also understand that we want to extend (heh heh heh) our recreational sexual lives for as long as possible because even us olds like to fuck.
There's another layer to this medically-induced boner thingie, and it has nothing to do with the phenomenon of 'erectile dysfunction'. Boner pills are doing a huge business with men of all ages who simply want to guarantee they can bang for hours, thus creating a false reality for themselves. Why (the advert-centered thinking goes) should ANY man not have an insta-boner at his beckoned call? I have known many guys, all younger than me, who made it a point to have the boner pills in-hand for their next big date, their weekend in Las Vegas, their next party run, no thinking necessary. Just eat the pill, stand back and watch the fun begin. What happens when they don't have that pill, that guarantee of being able to perform?
Here’s
what I really wanna know: why does it seem like
there are never enough ways to market boner pills for men on the teevee, but it
is verboten to do the same for meds and procedures for women who want to
prevent or end an unwanted pregnancy?
Why are erectile dysfunction and ‘premature issues’ such pressing and
urgent concerns that hundreds of millions of advertising dollars are spent to
market boner pills, but don’t even THINK about airing ads for condoms or birth
control (when was the last time you saw a birth control ad?) or family
planning, all to prevent those medically-induced wild boners from knocking-up
every fertile female within ejaculation range?
Why
indeed.
It’s
all about the big dick. It’s why men
take their countries to war (LBJ would actually whip out his dick in cabinet meetings during the Vietnam war to tout his mastery of the situation). It’s why mouth-breathers buy huge
4WD trucks that never go off-road, or insanely fast sports cars that never see the inside of a race track. It’s why guns of every imaginable type are so popular
in this here US of A. They are all
proxies for the big dick, snickering allusions to what supposedly really matters to modern males. Mine is
bigger than yours, and here’s a nuke to show you just how much bigger. Here’s
a matte black assault rifle slung on my back to stand in for my tiny penis
but you’ll act like I have a massive dong because I have a gun that looks like a big dick.
While
the Republican-supported War On Women continues to scythe through women’s
individual medical decisions, the boner pill issue hasn’t
gone unnoticed by female legislators. In state houses across the country, female representatives have tried to turn
the tables on their male (and many female) counterparts who
are bound and determined to eliminate access to birth control, contraception and abortion. The gals decided to amend the anti-choice laws with their
own bills, ones that would issue restrictive guidelines on ‘male enhancement’
medications, forcing men to jump through the same hoops women now must
navigate in order to get their dirty slut baby-killing pills or
patriotism-hating soshulist abortions.
In
Virginia, as the Senate debated requiring trans-vaginal ultrasounds for all women
seeking legal abortions, Senator Janet Howell proposed mandating rectal exams and
cardiac stress tests for men seeking their Very Important erectile dysfunction
baby-making pills. Her amendment failed by two votes, while the
girlie-parts-probing sneak-a-peek bill was overwhelmingly passed and signed by
the Governor. Hypocrisy much? In Ohio, a
bill introduced by state Senator Nina Turner would have compelled men to get
psychological screenings before getting prescriptions for boner meds. Her
bill also failed. Shocking.
Time after time, in one state house after another, Republicans have passed numerous anti-choice laws, all to subjugate and eliminate a woman’s right to decide what is best for her. But when the discussion turned to passing the same type of ‘we know what's best for you’ laws aimed at men, the male legislators suffered brain aneurisms at the very notion of MEN being subjected to restrictions before they could get their boner pills. The misogynistic lawmakers even had the audacity to claim that while boner pills were a necessary ‘medical’ treatment, contraception was nothing more than a ‘lifestyle’ choice and not a health or medical issue. The gals lost their arguments to the testicle-draggers in every case.
Time after time, in one state house after another, Republicans have passed numerous anti-choice laws, all to subjugate and eliminate a woman’s right to decide what is best for her. But when the discussion turned to passing the same type of ‘we know what's best for you’ laws aimed at men, the male legislators suffered brain aneurisms at the very notion of MEN being subjected to restrictions before they could get their boner pills. The misogynistic lawmakers even had the audacity to claim that while boner pills were a necessary ‘medical’ treatment, contraception was nothing more than a ‘lifestyle’ choice and not a health or medical issue. The gals lost their arguments to the testicle-draggers in every case.
Excuse
me? Pregnancy prevention is not a
‘medical’ issue?
What
I don’t get is the disconnect, the cognitive dissonance that leads conservative men to
demand access to and cherish the boner pills and the rampant sexing that results,
but to also denigrate contraception and birth control as unnecessary lifestyle
choices, as if boners and babies have no bearing on each other. It reeks of the longstanding fact that
whatever men think is important to them is sacrosanct, but whatever doesn’t
directly affect them, no biggie, don’t matter, perish the thought.
Assholes.
Assholes.
As
the bumper sticker sez: “If men could
get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament.”
I may be a dense wolverine, but even I can see the latent hypocrisy in this issue of boner pills vs. contraception. I submit that since these two modern medicines are inextricably linked by sex and biology and human nature, for every teevee commercial hawking boner pills, there should be a matching ad for contraception or family planning.
Yeah, I know. It will never EVER happen, because our society is still ruled by the mostly dumb and always hypocritical Conservative Men's Club, at least for now.
So here's the crux of the biscuit: we USians are indeed wallowing in the most advantageous period of human existence to this point. We have access to the best technology, the cleanest and healthiest foods, a lifestyle that allows us to live far longer than even our grandparents, and modern medicines that give us more control of our health than we could have ever hoped for. It stands to reason that both men AND women should be allowed to control their own destinies when it comes to sex and procreation. We are not dumb animals (at least not most of us), beholden to the ancient and primitive state of existence, living merely to eat, sleep, procreate and die.
If a man can legally buy and consume a pill to ensure he can get a stiff dick with which to fuck, a woman should be able to legally buy and consume a pill to make sure she doesn't get or stay pregnant. Why is this such a difficult concept for so many of our fellow 'Murricans to grasp?
Why indeed.
"Today's so-called 'conservatives' don't even know what the word means. They think I've turned liberal because I believe a woman has a right to an abortion. That's a decision that's up to the pregnant woman, not up to the Pope or some do-gooders or the Religious Right. It's not a conservative issue at all." -- Barry Goldwater
Yeah, I know. It will never EVER happen, because our society is still ruled by the mostly dumb and always hypocritical Conservative Men's Club, at least for now.
So here's the crux of the biscuit: we USians are indeed wallowing in the most advantageous period of human existence to this point. We have access to the best technology, the cleanest and healthiest foods, a lifestyle that allows us to live far longer than even our grandparents, and modern medicines that give us more control of our health than we could have ever hoped for. It stands to reason that both men AND women should be allowed to control their own destinies when it comes to sex and procreation. We are not dumb animals (at least not most of us), beholden to the ancient and primitive state of existence, living merely to eat, sleep, procreate and die.
If a man can legally buy and consume a pill to ensure he can get a stiff dick with which to fuck, a woman should be able to legally buy and consume a pill to make sure she doesn't get or stay pregnant. Why is this such a difficult concept for so many of our fellow 'Murricans to grasp?
Why indeed.
"Today's so-called 'conservatives' don't even know what the word means. They think I've turned liberal because I believe a woman has a right to an abortion. That's a decision that's up to the pregnant woman, not up to the Pope or some do-gooders or the Religious Right. It's not a conservative issue at all." -- Barry Goldwater
Pill image, gracias de mashangel.com; transporter image, gracias de jayski.com; Music Machine 'Talk Talk' video, muchismas gracias de youtube.com.